loyalty: spitting out thorns
when you have a chance to walk away. stay away..so a better way can make a way. if they dont ride with you but are fighting you..they are devalueing you. dont trip..humble pie stays in stock. charge it to the game.
Keywords: Wise & Peace
doors closed. trust.
Once a door is closed..keep that sucker closed. They wanted be out..let them stay out. They ALL try to make their way back when it gets cold out (they know what they did was wrong but will never come clean..). You can forgive..by forgiving yourself for letting your guard down. Avoid patterns. Vibrations have to be on point so YOU can stay on point. People will do what you allow them to..take responsibility in owning it. Never ignore red flags. Embrace Excellence.
seconds.
don’t ever get with your homies ex..it shows you are a desperate snake and you are a thirsty BUM. don’t be a left over desperado pimp. it also speaks volumes about the lady (if you will). 
Relationships: Loyalty101
It takes WORK & TRUST to yield long term results .The GREAT ones understand this. Thus, they will always WIN. #genuine #loyalty #excellence (Mrs OBAMA didn’t become FIRST LADY by accident..she is one to admire and aspire. Cheers)
Tainted Love.
Spoke with “a certain person” on Friday..I don’t know why I expect the best. It was more of a reminder as to why we can never meet common ground. No matter my efforts, its never appreciated (back to day one). Perhaps, it was also a reminder that I was too faithful and optimistic in celebrating the wrong person. It was all a lie. So ready for Europe like already..Change The Mood.
Team.
Whether its business, relationships or friendships..be an effective team player..not an ungrateful team slayer. #psa
Relationships* Why He Didn’t “Step Up”..
Ladies: When a man doesnt “step up”..it means you fell off.. We got standards too..don’t get it twisted.. Beauty’s only skin deep. Re-evalute your “value system” and maybe you wont miss the mark. Start with Loyalty & Integrity when you see a man putting in work and being honorable. You Just might win. A clean slate helps tremendously. He will move when he has no doubts in his mind or spirit. Everything aint gonna move cuz u want it to. Get off the high horse and come down to earth. Respect is paramount at all times for both to EARN trust.
Just a thought. #psa
(Big shout out to CREATIVEWRITINGS247!! A voice of reason!!! and yes she is HOT!! )
lyrics* To Be Loved | jackie wilson
Someone to care someone to share lonely hours and moments of despair to be loved, to be loved oh what a feeling to be loved Someone to kiss someone to miss when you're away to hear, from each day to be loved( to be loved) to be loved (to be loved) oh what a feeling to be loved Some wish to be a king or a queen some wish for fortune and fame but to be, truly, truly, truly loved is more than all of these things Someone to kiss someone to miss when you're away to hear, from each day to be loved, to be loved, to be loved oh what a feeling to be loved to be loved (to be loved) to be loved (to be loved) oh baby, what a feeling to be loved
I never had that feeling..but im sure its a beautiful thing..the day I truly meet the one who says what they mean..
baby got back.
she either got your back or she has your back…know the difference.
door walk.
“Once u walk out, the door is permanently locked” -anonymous
think fly.
My Mother told me the other day “you’ve changed” and I said “No Mom..i’m wide awake and enlightened”..when you begin to know what you are worth…you know what it’s worth. We don’t cry over them..we fly over them..
Talk Show> 15 Minute Break: The Truth About Platonic Relationships
Yours truly sitting in on the talk show circuit courtesy of our friends at www.blackisonline.com w/ HOST: Kimmie Marayama Calvert-Lehman
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http://www.blackisonline.com/2011/06/15-minute-break-the-truth-about-platonic-relationships/
real conversations #1
Never place demands on someone that you are not willing 2 place on yourself. U aint special. Take a seat.
